Monica Addresses Who’s Fault Cheating Really Is [VIDEO]

We have watched singer Monica grow up behind the mic but she has also done a lot of growing up over the years as it pertains to relationships.

Old Monica may have slapped the taste outcha mouth as it pertained to ‘the boy is mine’, however Monica the mother of 3 children has matured to the fact that when it comes to infidelities the person that took vows with you and sleeps in your bed every night is to blame for all the boundary breaking between them and the other.  

According to Monica

“Typically when people find out their mate is cheating, they will blame the other person more harshly than their mate, and I just find that to be insane,” “You realize how stupid that is because at the end of the day, the person that you either took vows with or made a commitment — because everybody ain’t married, but if I live with you it’s the same thing for me. So it’s like the commitment that you’ve made and the requirements and responsibility of taking care of the other person’s heart only belongs to your mate,”

Check out what all she had to say about relationships and boundaries below